Will My Marriage Work if I Marry Without Matching Kundli

Heavens have a way of showing us the way we are supposed to live in this lifetime, through preset planetary configurations that contain hints. We seek compatibility at all levels, in all our relationships, including marriage. Hence marriage related formalities, usually are focused primarily on matching kundli and secondarily on matching of background, families, fiscal health, physical and mental health.

Even in love marriage, where they look for similar wavelengths, astrology can help them find it, by matching the horoscopes. Kundali matching can determine the degree of adjustment, and understanding, fertility, monetary, mental and  physical  compatibility to name a few.  Through the Ashtakoot milan method, kundali is matched to decide about the relationship. Let us now see Should I marry despite a low Guna Matching Score.

Why should we Match Kundli?

Kundli matching gains importance in one’s life, on so many grounds. The question why should we match kundli has been a matter of. heated debates over decades back in time. Kundli match measures harmony through 8 parameters to decide to what extent the couple can be harmonious.  It shows problematic areas which the couple need to work on.

It checks the genetic aspects, and doshas like Mangal dosha and assesses the health and fertility issues related to the couple. This lets us know if we have a predetermined healthy life in astrology. Kundli comparison decides psychic and temperament compatibility and attachment towards each other.  Doshas like Bhakoot dosha decide the degree of prosperity that is preordained for the couple. Kundli matching should reflect minimum 18 out of 36 gunas. Lasting harmony in marriage can be achieved if the matching shows near perfect scores out of 36. Score as less as 18 can predict a potential mismatch that can lead the couple to the divorce lawyers.

How to Match Kundli?

Ashtakoot Matching measures the compatibility employing 8 parameters and to arrive at a final calculation.

• Graha Maitri: It assesses the moon sign compatibility, the intellectual compatibility, affection and peace of mind.
• Vashya: This tool will decide who will be the dominant partner. It decides the mutual attraction between the two.
• Tara: It examines the birth star compatibility between partners to predict mutual love and emotional connection. It also decides the mutual destiny in life.
• Gana: It matches the personality type of the couple and reveals their temperament.
• Nadi: It evaluates the overall health of the partners.
• Varna: This ensures similarity in social and familial preferences and goals. This also decides the spiritual compatibility.
• Yoni: This is to assess mutual love attraction, intimacy level, and sexual compatibility.
• Bhakoot: It predicts how prosperous the couple will be materially. It also decides the emotional compatibility and love.

Horoscope Compatibility:

Ashtakoot matching determines compatibility of minds and marital life whereas the horoscope matching decides physical and material compatibility. Horoscope matching will be done to study the seventh house, its ruler, and the occupying planets along with aspects they receive.

If the boy’s moon is placed in 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th house from girl’s moon, it is an inauspicious signal whereas the same places in 7th and 12th houses are deemed lucky. For a girl, her moon should be in 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th and 6th houses from the boy’s chart, which is considered lucky and if placed 12th from the boy’s chart, it would indicate a red signal.

What is the Role of a Good Astrologer in Marriage?

A good astrologer can have an ameliorating effect on marriage associated ills. The role of good astrologer for marriage is of incredible magnitude.  He can predict the marriage timing, the background and location of their spouse better than a software app.

He can also match you with someone with similar goals and values which makes life absolutely livable.  If something in the partners horoscope does not augur well for the other, an astrologer can forewarn the partners so that troubles could be avoided.

It can help the couple know about the reality of their relationships, and the hidden personality flaws that can potentially jeopardize the relationship. Sometimes the timing of marriage would be predetermined in horoscopes. For instance, if Mercury or moon occupy the 7th, it shows early marriage where Sun in the 7th can show delay in marriage. Delay is also caused by the presence of Mangal dosha which can be cancelled as well.

To Conclude:

Marriage looks like a gift from the heavens but every bit of it is precalculated and preordained by the celestial bodies. Our emotions, personalities, differences, everything is decided by planets which we can discern by getting our horoscopes assessed. It is possible to marry without matching the kundli as like mindedness and mutual understanding and love can win over any marital hurdle.

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